Okay so i'm a 14 year old freshman girl and there's this extremely hot guy on the boys varsity bball team that my brother plays on. His name's Omar (: He has the most ripped body i've ever seen, beautiful eyes, he's like 6'2 and he's just the total package! He's considered the hottest guy in class of 2011 ahah. He's a 17 year old senior. So like I got his number from my friend and then I just texted him "hey" and like 15 minutes, he was already making plans to come pick me up to we could chill at his house. I said no though and that I couldn't that night. But 2 nights ago, I was at my friends house and I was texting him, and I agreed to go to his house, so he picked me up from there. When we got to his house, we went up to his room and he locked the door, and we started making out and I could tell he was really liking it and so was I. And then all of a sudden, he started taking off my pants and threw me on the bed, and then got on top of me. So he had already taken off my pants AND underwear, so I was there half naked underneath him, and then he took off his pants and boxers and then tried to stick his diiiick in! Then I was like "nooo, sorry I can't." then he was like "ohh common baby, just lay back down. it's okay." then I kept saying, "no really, stop get off of me." and then I kept trying to get up, but then he kept pushing my shoulders down and holding them. and then I finally said "No! I mean it, like seriously i cant do this. get off of me." and he just kept saying, "baby it's okay. baby, just relax. what did i do baby?" and then I told him no again, and then he finally got off of me. So we didn't actually have sex, but he was like 4 inches away from getting it in, haha. I think one of the reasons he stopped was because his little brother was downstairs, so maybe he didn't want him to hear the noise/commotion of me yelling for him to stop. So then as he was driving me back to my friends house, he said "ohh i'm not mad or anything, like I respect a girl who can say no. So when we get to know each other more, maybe you'll let me." So yesterday, he asked me if I wanted to chill, and I said yes. But this time he came to my house bcos no one was home. So it was like what happened before, we went into a room and started making out, and then he started to take off my clothes then got on top of me. But this time I actually let him have sex with me. I don't really feel bad, bcos I liked it. And before all of you guys start asking me questions up the asss, no we did not use a condom, but I know fersure that i'm not pregnant and that he's clean. He said that using a condom doesn't feel as good, so I just went with it. But now, the reason i'm sad, is because he didn't even ask me to homecoming ): He asked some other girl. And the girl was a senior just like him. I really thought he liked me, because he said he did, but wouldn't he ask me to homecoming so we could go together? And it killed me to see the pictures of them at homecoming together. All I kept thinking was "Shouldn't that be me?" And now, the only times he texts me are to go over to his house, or for him to come over to mine. I say yes, because he's so sweet to me when we text and when i'm at his house. And whenever i'm at his house, we don't even bond or hang out or even just talk to each other. The first thing he does when I get to his house, is take me up to his room and then we have sex. Besides that, we hardly talk.|||Sounds like he's only interested in sex, he practically raped you the first time.
I'm not saying it was wrong for you to have sex with him, that's your choice, but you've got to understand he's not interested in a real relationship, otherwise you'll only end up getting hurt.
Also you really should use protection, the last thing you need is ot get pregnant as your age.|||he used you...|||Are you being serious? This guy practically raped you! You should of reported him straight away - he's disgusting! He's taking a young, vulnerable 14 year old girl, and taking full advantage of you. Please do not talk to him ever again, after the way he just treated you. All he wanted was your body. He's a loser. I'm glad you didn't end up sleeping with him. He could be doing this to other girls. Next time never go to a boy's house by yourself - they will want to sleep with you, and use you ( probably knowing that you are a virgin). It is rape, because you are a minor as well as the fact that he forced himself on you.|||You are letting yourself be used, and you may get pregnant.
He just wants you for easy sex, and it will never be anything else. He might pass you on to one of his friends. Your a sex toy to him. You don't even have a brain, in his mind.|||Wow, you should never trust a senior guy. No matter how sweet they seem, they only want sex from freshmen. Especially with no condom...That guy just bullshitted his way into you. He's using you for it. Does that not make you feel bad?|||Ok i think u hav a problem here. he doesnt like you he is just using yo. if he really liked you A) he wuld hav taken u to homecoming and B) he would hav waited to hav sex with you and not tried to force u the first time. your only a freshman and that is way too young to be doing those things. Its not good wats happening and from wat u say u barel know him. I say u shuld stop hanging out. period.|||I feel so bad for you...You have to have a mind of your own. I'm telling you these guys dont care about you at all! They just use you for sex because they know you're easy! And it's probably shameful for your brother to hear that his sister is the hoe of the school...I just wish you had more self respect for yourself. He never liked you and i think deep down you should know that/do know that..Stop sleeping with random guys! Stop sleeping with guys all together! (That doesn't mean sleep with girls). Just work on growing up please!
In regards to your other about the ipod thing...I just want a simple i-pod for christmas, that's it, and my birthday is a week after christmas...I'm not crying about if i get it or not. I'll be 17 and i know that so many other kids wish they could just have one meal in their stomach on that day...That they could even have a mother to yell at them and tell them no...Please stop taking your problems at home out and into other guys and then just using you for sex...You'll regret it later in life honestly...And if i were your brothers i would be ashamed of you.
(I'll be 17 in jan) I really wish i could help you..|||If you are for real, and I certainly hope you are not, he is taking you for a ride. In plain english, that means he is using you for sex and he has absolutely no interest in you beyond the hole in between your legs. I am sorry if that sounds harsh, but you need to wake up. This has Just enough truth in it to make me think that you might just be so inexperienced and have so little knowledge about boys that you could be telling the truth. Either way, this situation is pitifully sad.
This guy speaks to you because he knows that if he plays nice, you are going to take your clothes off.He isn't interested in talking to you because he doesn't care about what you have to say! You are going to wind up pregnant and he is going to walk away and be calling you trash to every person he knows. It will matter not, that he was a willing participant and that you believed he cared.
You never , never go to a guys home without knowing his parents are there. You don't ever go to a guys home or ask him to come to yours unless there are other people there. To do so, invites exactly what has happened to you. Legally, he can be taken to jail for rape because you are too young to consent to a sexual relationship. I suggest you press charges that as he plainly knew what to do and that you were vulnerable to his advances.
This guy is not your friend. He is probably telling every guy that he knows how easy a conquest you were. I hope your brother jacks him up when he finds out what a jerk this guy has done to you. You have been used in the worst possible way and I hope you have escaped a pregnancy and disease.
Lesson learned? No guy who cares about you is going to expect sex on the first or second date. When caring and respect are involved, he is going to want to show you off to his friends, take you out places and yes, go to the dances at school with you FIRST. Don't continue to humiliate yourself by talking to this guy anymore. He will use you until he gets tired of you or until you wind up pregnant with his child. Then he is going to walk away. And sadly, you are still a child yourself.
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