I don't structure my sex life based on what a mythological higher being might think about it...consider this, humans are (your) god's porn...if he can watch porn, why can't you???What does make an honorable/not honorable sex in a christian marriage?
My brother is a pastor and I was raised in the church, so I know a good deal about this.
1. Porn is not allowed because it is considered "looking with lust"...which is a sin. But thats a sin whether married or not.
2. The Bible says not to have sex while the woman is unclean, which most Biblical scholars interpret to mean during the womans period...this is the same reasoning why anal sex is prohibited.
However, if you want to be super technical, the Bible also teaches about how it is a sin to "sew seed in barren ground." which many Biblical scholars interpret as meaning that you shouldn't shoot your load anywhere that it could not possibly result in a pregnancy.What does make an honorable/not honorable sex in a christian marriage?As a married person, you have an obligation to meet your partner's sexual needs.
"The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife."
As christians it is so important to know the reason why you are having sex. A lot of people ask, "is it ok to lust after my wife?" and a lot of people say "YES, she is the one you are supposed to be lusting after." If you know the character of Jesus and are supposed to follow after his example, you would know that is wrong. You are called to love not lust. Just because you are married doesn't mean you are immune to bad thoughts. It is ok to find your wife attractive and want to make love to her, but that is not lust. You have to constantly make sure your mind is in the right place.
Same with how you have sex. We live in America, and we live in a time of sexual perversion like none other. It is important to guard yourself from present day "Sodom" perversions by keeping yourself out of the movies and out of pornography. It influences you like you would never know. Now days people can't be sexually satisfied unless they are having sex like porn stars. They have to have new positions all the time, usually at the expense of the womans body....
We are called to come out of the world to not share in its sins....
just make sure sex is about LOVE AND CONNECTION
not about lots of sexual positions and experimentation, just make sure your heart is in the right place.What does make an honorable/not honorable sex in a christian marriage?some quick points:
[1] "what does make"?!?? are you an 11th century christian?
[2] chapter and verse where porn is not allowed. (hint: it's not in there.)
[3] once you are married, you aren't "fornicating" any more. because you're married and stuff.
[4] what a nightmare you must be. Dying friend: "We havn't eaten in 4 days, lost in the woods. There are some granola bars!" Kooky Over-Thinking Everything You: "Wait let's ask God Our Father if we should eat them for that what does make Him happy."What does make an honorable/not honorable sex in a christian marriage?
i adore you that you love god soo do i
if your confused with sex imagine imagine your love one naked his balls sticking out nice and fresh your naked in bed or her boobs round and crispy with flurry hair sticking out think about it if thats the right person and also thunk with your heart think is god telling to have sex or not ?but a rule in the bible is get married before sex remember that
http://www.growthtrac.com/ - This is a website created by a Christian couple who used to mentor pre-engaged couples. Just type in "sex" or "intimacy" in the search bar.
I love this website. I refer to it countlessly, and it has really helped me through some tough times in my marriage.What does make an honorable/not honorable sex in a christian marriage?
Honourable is performing sex after marriage.
Dishonourable is having sex before marriage.
Leave "god" out of the bedroom. Do anything you both enjoy doing.
Also, don't sh*g other people. Unless you really can't help it.
Everything is allowed between the husband and wife only except for:
Anal s3x
Period s3x
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