How many married women have sex just to avoid being cheated on?

I love sex but not like my husband does. I find that I am having sex 70 percent of the time JUST to please him. He has pressured and threatened me so much that I feel like if I slip up, he will just find sex somewhere else. Do any other married women find themselves feeling like a tool?How many married women have sex just to avoid being cheated on?You shouldn't be having sex with someone because you're afraid they'l stop committing. You should have sex with them because you love them, want them to be happy, and want to take care of their needs.



Your husband obviously believes you don't/won't take his legitimate need for physical intimacy and sex seriously.



He thinks you see his desire for intimacy as selfish. Therefore the only way he can get you to respect his needs is by bullying and manipulating you. Perhaps your husband believes that if he doesn't do this, you'll reject him half the time, or worse, deliberately withhold sex out of anger or annoyance .



Men don't enjoy rejection any more than women do. It's not fair to demand exclusivity and monogamy from a person, then to treat their desire for sex as if it isn't important or not necessary. If you want to do the latter you shouldn't demand the former.



A lot of women view sex as a tool or a weapon, used to manipulate men. Your husband obviously sees "commitment" as a weapon in the same way women use sex.



I'm not trying to condone his behavior, merely trying to explain some of the possible reasons. You two really need to have a serious chat about this. It's not OK for him to bully you into giving him sex. That's not real love or intimacy.



You should ask him whether he's committed to the marriage or not. Tell him if he really thinks he might cheat, no matter the reason, tell him the only right thing to do would be to get a divorce. That way if he wants to have sex with multiple partners, he's won't have to be dishonest and hurt anyone's feelings to do it. On the other hand, if he actually wants to be "married" and wants that kind of commitment, he CANNOT have his cake and eat it too. Infidelity should be absolutely out of the question, he shouldn't even mention the possibility since that implies he doesn't really want to be "married." Furthermore, if he doesn't think he can get his needs met in a relationship just by asking his spouse, then he should marry someone else whom he's confident WILL.



For your part, you should agree to take his desire for sex seriously, and only turn him down if there's a serious reason, not just because it's inconvenient to you, or because you want to "punish" him.How many married women have sex just to avoid being cheated on?
It is probably normal to *sometimes* feel as though you are being used for sex while getting little in return. That said, few men actually threaten to leave if their wives don't perform sexually on demand. If you love your husband, you should want to please him (while also getting a little affections and pleasure of your own) at least a couple times a week. If you feel as though you have to have sex every day in order to keep him from cheating, then you probably married an insensitive a$$.



If you love him, then have sex with him as often as you can and enjoy it. Why not?How many married women have sex just to avoid being cheated on?Ummmmm! Some what ...meaning thr are times when Im really not in the mode. Ya know. But we usually end up having sex anyway. And that's that. But only bc I am willing to please my husband such as yourself. And it doesn't take much for me to get in the mood, I mean it does feel good! ;-) But let me add, if Im tired,sick or etc. It simply wont happen and I dare you to cheat on me. last time i checked a relationship is 50/50.



But when you say he has threatened you ..That doesn't sound like marriage! I couldn't allow myself to feel like a tool. You definately shouldn't feel that way but I can see why when he threatens you. Therefore you feel that you have too. No way!

Your Husband is suppose to your best friend , your everything. If your feeling like a tool when it comes down to satisfying your Husband..it's time to compromise and work together at hand.Seek counseling. Good Luck!
You know what? Having sex with him doesn't guarantee that he won't cheat. My ex-husband and I had a great sex life. And he also had a great sex life with a couple of skanks too. A cheater will cheat regardless. How about you examine the reasons why you really aren't all that interested in sex. It may work wonders.How many married women have sex just to avoid being cheated on?Guess what? He will anyways. You can have sex 24/7 and he will tire of the same hole. So forget this silly synopsis.



Cheating is a SELFISH act. So you can't forsee this.How many married women have sex just to avoid being cheated on?
Once you stop feeling guilty about cutting him off, you will and then he'll find some cheap hookers of bar trash to bring home a disease for you to share. Try to find joy in it for god's sake it is called making love, try and feel it you cold fish.
Why would u have to do that ... Just catch them in the act...I grabbed some products at

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*****How many married women have sex just to avoid being cheated on?
I do sometimes just 'go along' with sex to please my husband...but it's not because he would ever cheat on me or that I feel threatened but simply because I want to please my husband
No. I don't mercy fkuc. If he cheats, it will be because HE chose to disrespect our marraige vows.



A guy who pressures and threatens you isn't worth having sex with....
Nope, and if I ever started to feel like "a tool" I'd be gone in a heartbeat!
hmm not exactly
No not really...