He tried to have sex with me?

Okay so i'm a 14 year old freshman girl and there's this extremely hot guy on the boys varsity bball team that my brother plays on. His name's Omar (: He has the most ripped body i've ever seen, beautiful eyes, he's like 6'2 and he's just the total package! He's considered the hottest guy in class of 2011 ahah. He's a 17 year old senior. So like I got his number from my friend and then I just texted him "hey" and like 15 minutes, he was already making plans to come pick me up to we could chill at his house. I said no though and that I couldn't that night. But yesterday, I was at my friends house and I was texting him, and I agreed to go to his house, so he picked me up from there. When we got to his house, we went up to his room and he locked the door, and we started making out and I could tell he was really liking it and so was I. And then all of a sudden, he started taking off my pants and threw me on the bed, and then got on top of me. So he had already taken off my pants AND underwear, so I was there half naked underneath him, and then he took off his pants and boxers and then tried to stick his diiiick in! Then I was like "nooo, sorry I can't." then he was like "ohh common baby, just lay back down. it's okay." then I kept saying, "no really, stop get off of me." and then I kept trying to get up, but then he kept pushing my shoulders down and holding them. (he was super aggressive and strong) and then I finally said "No! I mean it, like seriously i cant do this. get off of me." and he just kept saying, "baby it's okay. baby, just relax. what did i do baby?" and then I told him no again, and then he finally got off of me. So we didn't actually have sex, but he was like 4 inches away from getting it in, haha. I honestly thought he was gonna rape me because he kept trying to force himself in, but I just kept pushing him away so he couldn't. I think one of the reasons he stopped was because his little brother was downstairs, so maybe he didn't want him to hear the noise/commotion of me yelling for him to stop. But then, as we were going downstairs, he just picked me up out of nowhere and took me to a bathroom in one of the other rooms, and just shut and locked the door! I wasn't sure if I should scream or not so I just kept quiet. And then when were in the bathroom, he sat me up on the sink and started making out with me. And then he tried again to have sex with me, but this time he tried taking off my top first. I WAS SO SCARED. I continued to kiss him back bcos I didnt wanna get him angry and because he's so freaken hot %26lt;3. And then he took off his pants again, and just held me close and whispered "dont worry baby, were both gonna like this." and then I kept telling him no! I even made up lies and said that I was on my period but he still insisted on having sex right there in his bathroom! and then as he was trying to get it in, I just shoved him away. and he saw that I was really serious, so then he stopped and said "im sorry baby." And then this time, we left his house forrreal. So then as he was driving me back to my friends house, he said "ohh i'm not mad or anything, like I respect a girl who can say no. So when we get to know each other more, maybe you'll let me." Do you think he means this? So like now today at school, he kept looking at me, but he didn't say hi or anything? Is he mad at me? What does this whole thing mean? Does he like me or no? Bcos I dont think he would try that hard to have sex with me if he didn't. I just want to know. Kthanks! (:


*PS* he wants me to go to his house again tomorrow. Should I? I loved making out with him and him holding me and hugging me, but the only part that freaked me out a little was him trying to have sex w/ me. I'm confused! What should I do?|||you are luckyhe didn't rape you with all your teasing. once you said no and thought he was going to rape you, you should have left.|||lol you're gonna lose you virginity tomorrow and he's going to brag to all his friends about it too. I sure hope he'll wear a condom or that you're on birth control because you get pregnant if you have unprotected sex (herp derp)|||I think you're blonde!


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I think you really are blonde.|||Im not reading all that bullsh隆t|||ithink you shoulld just tell him i dont want to have sex sorry unless u do want to just say im not ready for that yet|||My, Dear.Dont go back to his house or be alone in the car with him again.Boys at that age are controlled by one thing.that is there hormones.I know this sounds old fashioned and cheesey comming from a girl a little older,but dont do it.You might regret it like i did.Hes probably only trying to rack up as many girls as he can fix.Why not get interested in the boys a little more quiet? they have a bigger heart and a much bigger appreciation for a special girl like you.your only claim to fame might be the lable of 'slut' if you let this loser take advantage.|||You joke about him trying to rape you, but he actually seemed to try to do just that. It's called "date rape", and it's no joke. It's understandable that you found him attractive and enjoyed making out, but that doesn't at all make it okay what he did. It is likely from your description of how he acted that he has probably got away with date raping many other girls before who were not as confident as you to stand your ground and resist as strongly as you were able to. What he did was actually a crime, or certainly would have been if he had succeeded.





He was planning on using you for the night, and since you didn't accept that, he may have written you off, or he may hope to get you in the same situation again. The one thing for sure is you should not let yourself be alone with this guy, or he probably will rape you. I'm not kidding at all. He doesn't want to be your boyfriend, either--sex is all he's after. Especially don't take any pill or drink anything that he gives you--he may use a date rape drug on you so you won't be able to resist next time. Good-looking or not, forget that loser and find yourself a guy that'll show you some respect. Be careful around guys like this; you were lucky to get out unscathed this time. Next time you might not be so lucky.|||Call the police, 'cuz you're a minor, honey. And he could try to rape and kill you, you never know. You should tell an adult, no matter how embarrassing it is, so just in case you ever do mysteriously disappear someone knows who to point the finger at.|||do you want me tobe honest with or Lie to you? whatever i'm going to tell you the truth. first of all you started texting a dude in a couple of day and ended up in his house. you let him take off ur pants and you underwear even though you don't want to have sex with him. trick number one when a guy ask you to come up to his room it's either to have sex and make out with you or show you ho smelly his room is. my grandma always tell me even if a guy don't want to have sex with you like only as a friend or not. when he asked you to come over to his house all alone to hang out. when he sees you, he will think you want something more if you alone with the guy there will be a moment. you lucky enough to stop it.you will not always be lucky. so anyway be careful|||OMG! reading this pissed me off! The second time he tried to have sex with u was kinda ur fault because u did make out with him, so u led him on, so u cant blame that on him. And ur soo clueless, why the **** would u go to his house again?!?!?! If u r really considering going back to his house ur a huge dumb ***!!!! Of course he doesn't REALLY like u. Maybe 15% of him likes u and the other 85% just wants to **** u.|||PLEASE do not put ur self in a position like that.. he will rape u. and if ur not ready dont do it


you are far too young|||im a guy, and i disrespect guys like that. haha sorry but life's truth is, guys are assholes. except ugly ones. and nice ugly ones are usually gay. :/ except me. (haha i kidd) but 9 times of 10 a situatuation like that means he only wants just that from you, if he cant hes done for a while until he wants it again. dont let him fool you. i cant tell you how many of my friends lost their virginity to a complete douchebag.|||Do not go to his house. You were almost date raped. Do not continue to be involved with this guy just because he is hot. He sounds like a creep that has probably had many other girls in the same situation that prob were too scared to say no. be proud of yourself for standing up to him. Don't put out for a guy who doesn't put on a condom. He has no respect for you and just wants to bang you and will then forget you. Find a guy of substance that might not be as hot but won't treat you poorly and make love to him. stop texting him as it is only seen by him as an invitation to get into your panties. Continue to act with self respect or no one will respect you. It may not seem so now but 14 is a bit young and he is taking advantage of you. You did good, your parents should be proud of you.