He tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore (please read ALL!)?

Okay so i'm a 14 year old freshman girl and there's this extremely hot guy on the boys varsity bball team that my brother plays on. His name's Omar (: He has the most ripped body i've ever seen, beautiful eyes, he's like 6'2 and he's just the total package! He's considered the hottest guy in class of 2011 ahah. He's a 17 year old senior. So like I got his number from my friend and then I just texted him "hey" and like 15 minutes, he was already making plans to come pick me up to we could chill at his house. I said no though and that I couldn't that night. But 2 nights ago, I was at my friends house and I was texting him, and I agreed to go to his house, so he picked me up from there. When we got to his house, we went up to his room and he locked the door, and we started making out and I could tell he was really liking it and so was I. And then all of a sudden, he started taking off my pants and threw me on the bed, and then got on top of me. So he had already taken off my pants AND underwear, so I was there half naked underneath him, and then he took off his pants and boxers and then tried to stick his diiiick in! Then I was like "nooo, sorry I can't." then he was like "ohh common baby, just lay back down. it's okay." then I kept saying, "no really, stop get off of me." and then I kept trying to get up, but then he kept pushing my shoulders down and holding them. and then I finally said "No! I mean it, like seriously i cant do this. get off of me." and he just kept saying, "baby it's okay. baby, just relax. what did i do baby?" and then I told him no again, and then he finally got off of me. So we didn't actually have sex, but he was like 4 inches away from getting it in, haha. I think one of the reasons he stopped was because his little brother was downstairs, so maybe he didn't want him to hear the noise/commotion of me yelling for him to stop. So then as he was driving me back to my friends house, he said "ohh i'm not mad or anything, like I respect a girl who can say no. So when we get to know each other more, maybe you'll let me." Do you think he means this? So yesterday, he asked me if I wanted to chill, and I said yes. But this time he came to my house bcos no one was home. So it was like what happened before, we went into a room and started making out, and then he started to take off my clothes then got on top of me. But this time I actually let him have sex with me. I don't really feel bad, bcos I liked it. But now, the reason i'm sad, is because he didn't even ask me to homecoming ): He asked some other girl. And this girls was a senior just like him. I really thought he liked me, because he said he did, but wouldn't he ask me to homecoming so we could go together? And it killed me to see the pictures of them at homecoming together. All I kept thinking was "Shouldn't that be me?" And now, the only times he texts me are to go over to his house, or for him to come over to mine. I say yes, because he's so sweet to me when we text and when i'm at his house. And whenever i'm at his house, we don't even bond or hang out or even watch tv together. The first thing he does when I get to his house, is take me up to his room and then we have sex. Besides that, we hardly talk. Why is this? What should I do? I'm so confused.He tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore (please read ALL!)?
Um its called RAPE



he just wanted to have s*x with you because you were a young virgin. He totally used you
Sounds like a player to me! :/He tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore (please read ALL!)?
what you should do is tell your parents and get a pregnancy check and an STD check because i bet this big handsome jock does not believe in condoms ----- sorry he is using you for sex and thats it ---- he does not care for you he probably goes to some other ladies house and has sex with her the nights he is not with you ---- i know you care for him but he does not care for you in the slightest ---- i hope the age of consent where you are is 16 or 17 then he has raped you (or at least the law says he raped you) ---- im sorry i hate to see innocent young ladies used and abused by mongrels like him ---- best wishes and i sincerely hope you take up my suggestions even if its only to see the doctor
Well clearly he just wants sex, and I'm sorry to say, you are foolish for just letting him take advantage of you like that, especially since you met what, twice before having sex for the first time? You hardly knew the guy. Stop texting him. Distance yourself from him. If you let him continue to take advantage of you, you'll only cause yourself more hurt in the end.He tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore (please read ALL!)?
you never should've let him have sex with you!!! he was obviously just USING you. what a jerk. so what if he's good looking? sounds like he just wants to get in a little 14 year olds pants and leave. he obviously had no feelings for you... i would consider it rape even.. subconsciously..

where's your brain at girl? BE SMART ABOUT THINGS LIKE THIS! DON'T LET THEM JERKS TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU.



btw to him, you're just another sex toy. he's probably having sex with other girls too. and he didn't invite you to homecoming but another girl which means he probably did that girl too. don't you get it???
I'm sorry sweetie but your being used for sex......):
Your his little sex puppet from what it sounds like and hes going to keep doing until you talk to him and stop it...
The guy is a creep. Pure and simple. He basically thinks of you as a sex toy. The best thing for you to do is not see him. If he tries to force you to do anything then you have to resist and confront him. I wish you hadn't had sex with him the first time, but hopefully you forget about this guy and find someone who actually respects you
:( he totally used u. and im sorry but u are stupid for letting him have sex with u!! u need to move on this guy is a player.
it may be hard to do thids but you need to put your foot down and say that enough is enough. he is using you bad, and he will just do this to another girl. people like this should be taught a lesson, tell him no, if he starts forcing you this is could get very serious, involve a parent if he ignores you. you can still text him but make sure he understands u r not his toy to play with weneva he wants . get to know other boys your age and make sure they treat you with respect, it is what you deserve, a real boyfriend will act totally different. and imagine what that girl who went to homecoming with him would think? she probably believes he is her boyfriend and what would she think and fee;l if she found out about you two? or maybe he is treating her like this too. it is disrespectful rubbish. pls dont put up with this.
Omigosh, im really sorry, but girl, stay away from him. Im not gonna say anything to make u feel worse, but seriously, this guy is a sadistic beast and is a douche too. U will see this one day. All he wants is sex from you. The best thing you could do right now is get far away from him as you could. he's not good.