How can i get my girlfriend interested in sex again?

My girlfriend and i have been together on and off for over 2 years. She has depression issues and is taking antidepressants she also is agoraphobic. I love her very much but i miss the cuddling, sleeping in the same bed and sex. My thinking is everyone has needs and i try to fill all of her needs but at the same time shes not trying to fill mine. I have talked to her about this and she doesnt want to talk about it. I feel lately im giving and all she is doing is taking. What should i do?How can i get my girlfriend interested in sex again?Ok, I'm going to put this as blunt as I can and be as honest as possible. You are a pathetic excuse for a human being if I ever saw one. You say you love her, but you are more worried about getting yourself off then worrying if she is interested in sex or not. Has it ever occurred to you that maybe it's your attitude and personality that has really turned her away from you? You know, don't sit there and try to make people feel sorry for you because your g/f dumped you and doesn't want you anymore because you can't understand that along with depression and agoraphobia comes lack of interest in sex. You obviously don't suffer from any mental probs except you'vee got penis envy. I, myself, suffer from depression and agoraphobia and if I had someone like you in my life I would feel very sorry for your small-mindedness. Actually, I already do. You need to find someone else who will put up with you and tolerate your "short" comings. I would say this, why don't you just leave her alone? She is through with you and you just need to find someone who obviously doesn't have mental pr obs, because your obviously not understanding enough to deal with them. GET A LIFE!How can i get my girlfriend interested in sex again?
There are lots of ways to approach this situation, though it may be depression that is causing her lack of interest in sexual activity.

She may need something to lite the spark again something new in sex or that excites her.

She may feel uncomfortable with herself in a way that she is embarrassed to admit

She may be losing interest and afraid to tell youHow can i get my girlfriend interested in sex again?if she is struggling with depression, you need to remember to stay sensative. It seems like you are doing a pretty good job at that. but if talking about sex bothers her, give her time. if you truly love her, in the end it will all be worth it. Try not to make her uncomfertable by talking about it, because i know i used to and sometimes still do feel really bad about myself after having sex. i used to be disgusted. idk if she is going through anything similar, but just remember dont pressure her, let her move at her own time.

best of luck to you :)How can i get my girlfriend interested in sex again?
When you talk to her you, don't be accusing. Just explain to her that you love her and that you are a sexual being and have certain needs. But be sensitive, Don't push. Try taking her out somewhere nice where she will have to spend time gussying up. When a woman looks nice, she feels nice. Then make sure to tell her how nice nad sexy she looks. Have a few drinks and flirt a lot (with her) . Flirting is good in a relationship. This should put her in a more sexual mood. Even though you geys have been together a long time, you still have to woo her. Make her feel good. Try to appeal to her more feminine side. pressuring her is not going to help. You have to be patient.



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Well I would like to start by saying that I am sure she loves you!! Be patient and gentle with her, do not push sex on her just let it come spontaniously.

Keep in mind she did not choose to have these illnesses, be understanding, do some research not only on the illnesses, but on how to deal with them as her partner in life, learn some effective ways to approach her without making her feel like "she has or is doing something wrong" Don't put her on the spot. And for goodness sake do not threaten to leave her just because there is no sex.... there is more to love and relationships than sex.

If you reassure her daily that you are in it for life that you love her unconditionally and are not going anywhere she will become more confident in the relationship, then when you two do have sex, make it enjoyable for HER ....( I am sure if you want this bad enough you can forget about your own wants and fantasies) make sure she gets to climax before you do!!!! Then just let it come slowly at her pace and in time the two of you may be back to the way things were!!