How important is sex in a relationship for men?

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and he is constantly wanting sex (we haven't did it yet) he is attractive but I just don't want to have sex yet.How important is sex in a relationship for men?Honey this is the "marriage and Divorce" section, you might wana ask this in singles and dating. . .How important is sex in a relationship for men?
Most women find their deeper intimacy in relationship through COMMUNICATION. Most men do not! Most men find their deepest intimacy by and through sex. Sounds immature and juvenile, but that's the way most guys operate. It is in sex that he then knows he's wanted as a man.

You rejecting his advances tells him that he's not wanted. This is why many guys up and walk away when sexually rejected.



But when a women hands out free sex outside of marriage also tells him that she is a slut. Her only desire is for free sex too! And that's what he wants to hear! He wants to find a woman who has no morals, no ethics and no integrity. He can then GET what he wants with no caveats! That's what it's "FREE".



See, you are placing BOUNDARIES on this relationship that most guys don't want! They don't want to be told what to do. (quid pro quo / this for that) They want it for FREE.

Understand when you agree to sex outside of marriage tells him that, for you, all sex outside of marriage is just fine. Once married, he has no real problem with cheating and affairs because YOU already said that that was okay to do! You proved it in your own morality!



95% of all people that cheat demand sex before marriage! That way they can continue in the morality they believe in.



But then, it's all YOUR choice!How important is sex in a relationship for men?If he can't accept that you don't wanna have sex, then ditch him.
very importantHow important is sex in a relationship for men?Its the only thing that is important!How important is sex in a relationship for men?
most important

get raped by him, you ***** slut!!
He is probably bugging you so much because you havent done it at all yet. After youre ready and have sex with him, he may calm down a bit. But they always want sex alot. Im this way as well and im female. My husband loves me for this.
But it isnt the most important thing in the relationship. It can be the most alked about topic, and the start of most fights, if you arent having sex.How important is sex in a relationship for men?
Its probably the most important need, sex is both how men express love AND the denial of sex is a rejection AND they get terribly physically frustrated.



However, if you dont feel ready, dont allow him to pressure you.
Pushing you for sex?

This has nothing to do with how "important" it is. Your boyfriend has gone this long without it and he can easily wait until your ready, if he wanted to.

This is a question basic RESPECT and TRUST!

The fact that he's pressuring you for sex shows that he does NOT respect your feelings. Furthermore he doesn't value the trust you place in him. In other words, he's taking your trust for granted, as if thinks he automatically deserves it no matter what.

If he really respected your feelings and your trust him meant anything to him, he wouldn't try to pressure you. That is incredibly disrespectful.

Protip: any man who pressures you for sex I guarantee will take you for granted later in the relationship..
If he has genuine love for you,he would respect your wishes,and not pressure you at all,he is obviously more used going out with ladies whos pants are off as soon as he winks his eye,and you it seems are wanting a little respect and dignity which it seems he isnt used to,a lot of men are like this they think its owed to them,i say good for you dont give in,there are still lots of gentlemen who care about the womans feelings,and dont think that getting into thier pants is a god-given-right to men.
It is most important in a relationship for men.

My husband needs and does sex with me every now and then.

It is more and more important for him to do sex with me every now and then..

Thanks and good luck.
Ya that is good for you because if he did not understand you leave him that is not love that is attraction.Because I m also a boy who write this.