Is it normal to have sex this infrequently in a healthy relationship?

My girlfriend is from Bulgaria and we have been together for two years. When the relationship started we were having sex a couple times a week but now she only wants it every two weeks or so. When we have sex, we both orgasm each time but this is way too infrequent for me. Otherwise, we get along great and are planning to get married in March, but if the sex is going to get less frequent I don't know what I will do! Please advise me.Is it normal to have sex this infrequently in a healthy relationship?Tough call. My thoughts are to not get married until you resolve this. Sexual incompatibility is critical for a successful and healthy marriage.



I've been married for 15 years and have been miserable the majority of it - mostly due to sexual incompatibility issues. My wife doesn't crave sex - and we only had it once every few months! Actually, once every 4-6 months to be more precise. Every year I would complain, we'd get into a fight, she'd agree to "try" more and we'd have sex a few times a week for about 3 or 4 weeks, then, it would shift to once a month, then back to her default of once every 4-6 months.



So ... my point is ... either she is the sort of person to put her feelings of sex aside and to have it with you more frequently ... or she isn't.



If she is able to have sex as often as you want (or to some satisfactory compromise) - then the marriage can work. But if she steadfastly refuses - then I say don't go ahead with the relationship.



Have a serious talk with her about this. Let her know that even if she only wants sex once every other week, that she has to do it more often for you.Is it normal to have sex this infrequently in a healthy relationship?
If sex is important to you then you're better off in the long run marrying someone else, as much as it hurts you. When you "buy the house" it's too late for remorse. Trust me, getting married will NOT increase the frequency of sex -- quite on the contrary, because of the extra stress from married life (bills, taxes, cleaning the house, going to the supermarket, etc etc).Is it normal to have sex this infrequently in a healthy relationship?Every two weeks huh, wow...that is pretty infrequent. Ask her...seriously. There's got to be a reason why she's wanting it less now than when you first got together. Does she have a job that leaves her tired? Is she stressed about something? There's got to be something causing her decline. Just go about it the right way, don't attack her. Be nice %26amp; just get her to open up to you.Is it normal to have sex this infrequently in a healthy relationship?
Have you tried talking to her about it?? I think there definitely needs to be a conversation about it before you guys get married.Is it normal to have sex this infrequently in a healthy relationship?Get OUT NOW!Is it normal to have sex this infrequently in a healthy relationship?
Don't know. What does your heart say