How To Fall Out Of Love?

I didn't put the name of my ex but anyway, when I am around im/her my stomach hurts with butterflies and feels tight, my heart beats out of my chest, i get shakey, and cold with goosebumps. He/she's always on my mind LIKE 24/7 litterly if I thinking about food I ranform into thinking about him/her plus I dream, and day dream about that person even if its just a normal thinking proccess. Thir name and face just won't go away. Plus when that person cheated on me (2007-2010 dated. 2002-2011 friendship) my heart just broke i mean I was feeling the same thing that i felt when I was with her...i mean him/her and i cried, and cried and cried I honestly, thought we was meant to be but he/she cheated on me and now he/she has a baby on the way (LOL try to get that one) and is endgaged but get this before he/she meant "her" he/she broke up with me for another chick saying he/she isn't in love with me and don't love me anymore and hates me (he/she hits me he/she can be abusive) and said he/she is in love with her and do anything with her and having her move in but now he/she went on with someone else i dont get it why cheat in me with someone u claim ur in love with and move on to someonje else and he/she is all happy and im jealous. I found out he/she has a FB and i had butterflies in my belly, I get very cold and shaky and tingly and love and hate feeling when I saw her...i mean pic and seeing him/her with my ex in pics all happy making me feel more jealous and feel like why couldn't I make her happy like that? i was there for him/her make him/her smile and u know do all them lovley dovey ish and this is how he/she repaid me? i know I don't deserve a bad gf/bf like him/her but I can't stop thinking, dreaming, writing, and having them annyoying feelings for him/her everytime I hear her/his name or see a pic. I know im in love but THE REAL question is why am I still in love? i want to stop being overly obbssed with this person but when u been togather for 3 years (if ur inlcuding 10 years of our "so called freiendship its very hard I tried to coupe with it by hanging out with friends and im seeing this boy/girl who i been going out for a year i love and like her enough to be comminted (im 20 years old so dont say im to young) but for some reason im still in love with him/her any advice on how to get over that mean cheating as ex I had? were both mentally disibaled and been in special ed all our lives grow up through thick and thin thought I could trust OH FORGET I'LL JUST SAY IT....HER HER HER (im a girl...lol) but i was wrong she graduated in 2009 at 18 im still in schol in a baby calss (lol) til im 21 and that kinda get me busy and her off my mind but it ain't working. shes not a bad friend shes sweet, funny and nice BUT has bi polar and i think autism but us being in a relationship (or use to be) was bad. Anyway don't say tl to read cuz this is a matter i need to let go. Thanks ppl :) btw It would help if you could put your experience on here and tell me how you moved on...FOR REAL and keep her/him off your mind :) thank you btw im actallu thinking of him/her right now lol i hate being in love with someone who is gone :(

btw she cheated one me over a cell phone txt she said she was goin sk8ing with her ex and said she won't cheat on me but the next day she did



it's been a year sinse we broke up and I still cryHow To Fall Out Of Love?
Your information is too long.

I read the question and the last line and I understand what you are going through.

I scanned some of the long explanation, but my answer is:



If you really love the person, you CAN'T fall out of love.

You will suffer until time dulls everything.



The only other way to make this go into the background is to replace the person with somebody else.

Then you will think more about the new person.

The problem is, if you are still in love with the old one, you won't want to find a replacement.



So this is my answer.

I hope it makes sense.How To Fall Out Of Love?
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im lost
Alcohol and lots of it unless you can't handle the devils nectar just swallow that heartache and take each day one step at a time