He tried to have sex with me?

Okay so i'm a 14 year old freshman girl and there's this extremely hot guy on the boys varsity bball team that my brother plays on. His name's Omar (: He has the most ripped body i've ever seen, beautiful eyes, he's like 6'2 and he's just the total package! He's considered the hottest guy in class of 2011 ahah. He's a 17 year old senior. So like I got his number from my friend and then I just texted him "hey" and like 15 minutes, he was already making plans to come pick me up to we could chill at his house. I said no though and that I couldn't that night. But yesterday, I was at my friends house and I was texting him, and I agreed to go to his house, so he picked me up from there. When we got to his house, we went up to his room and he locked the door, and we started making out and I could tell he was really liking it and so was I. And then all of a sudden, he started taking off my pants and threw me on the bed, and then got on top of me. So he had already taken off my pants AND underwear, so I was there half naked underneath him, and then he took off his pants and boxers and then tried to stick his diiiick in! Then I was like "nooo, sorry I can't." then he was like "ohh common baby, just lay back down. it's okay." then I kept saying, "no really, stop get off of me." and then I kept trying to get up, but then he kept pushing my shoulders down and holding them. and then I finally said "No! I mean it, like seriously i cant do this. get off of me." and he just kept saying, "baby it's okay. baby, just relax. what did i do baby?" and then I told him no again, and then he finally got off of me. So we didn't actually have sex, but he was like 4 inches away from getting it in, haha. I honestly thought he was gonna rape me because he kept trying to force himself in, but I just kept pushing him away so he couldn't. I think one of the reasons he stopped was because his little brother was downstairs, so maybe he didn't want him to hear the noise/commotion of me yelling for him to stop. So then as he was driving me back to my friends house, he said "ohh i'm not mad or anything, like I respect a girl who can say no. So when we get to know each other more, maybe you'll let me." Do you think he means this? So like now today at school, he kept looking at me, but he didn't say hi or anything? Is he mad at me? What does this whole thing mean? Does he like me or no? I just want to know. Kthanks! (:


*PS* he wants me to go to his house again tomorrow. Should I? I loved making out with him and him holding me and hugging me, but the only part that freaked me out a little was him trying to have sex w/ me. I'm confused! What should I do?|||"I honestly thought he was gonna rape me because he kept trying to force himself in, but I just kept pushing him away so he couldn't."


Clear evidence that he's using you for sex. If he liked you, he would've stopped trying when you first asked him to. Also, this is your first time to his house, and he's already made a move on you!


Cut your ties with him. He may be the perfect guy, but if he tries to use you like that, well... he's using you. Good luck!|||MANWHOREEE ALRET HE ONLY WANTS YOUR VAGINA.


RUN AWAY IMMEDIATELY.|||That was immoral and wrong of you, women should let men do whatever they want to them.|||I would meet him in a public place and make him respect you first before going back into his bedroom. Be careful!|||so you went round to his house for the first and then he tried to ******* rape you! dont be a retard and get a new guy!|||Hes just trying to get in your pants...|||dumb tich|||stay away from him. he's a pervert|||do not! do not!!! u WILL regret it years from now|||STAY AWAY. He sounds like a disrespectful guy that takes advantage of a girls. Senior guys don't want to date freshman girls, usually. They mostly just want some. He knows he's good looking and he will sweet talk you.|||OMG! you really need to stay away from this guy. what a freak, he only wants sex. and do not have sex with him. i can gurantee that if you do end up having sex with him or decide to go back to his house, and if you guys do end up having sex, you are most likely going to regret it.


he may look hot but all he wants is to get in your pants and then he'll probably just ignore you the next day and go have sex with some other girl.|||HELL TO THE NO! GIRL YOU SHOULD'VE BEATEN HIS *** INFRONT OF HIS BROTHER SO HIS SIBLING COULD SEE THE REAL TRASH OF A BROTHER HE LIVES WITH.but if he ever touches you again.I dont care if jesus is watching you beat him.like madea would|||I say to not go to his house, try to go somewhere public so he can't do that


if he can't understand that you're not comfortable with sex, you shouldn't go out with him


if you ask me he doesn't know what "no" really means|||if you start with sex too soon, it will set the tone for the rest of the relationship, and all it will be is a sex relationship. if you don't want to have sex, don't make out, because in a guys mind, making out says sex in big letters. you may have screwed this relationship because of that, but don't be too broken up, because at your age, dating a guy three years older than you isn't a good idea|||Come on!!! the dude wasnt trying to rape you or anything sometimes girls say no but they dont really mean it thats why he continued for a while (thats part of the foreplay, girls resist, guys insist) but when you got serious he snapped out of it. I dont think he'll try to take it that far again unless you start taking off his pants. But anyways just note that girls tend to enjoy cuddling and holding more than guys do, guys like sex, so if he gets bored with all the mushy stuff and decides to move on then dont be surprised but at the same time dont force yourself to please him. And yes go can go to his house theres nothing to fear.|||he said hes not mad?


thats stupid of course he shouldnt be mad


dont trust him he sounds like an ***....


I wouldnt go you never know what could happen|||He is going to try to have sex with you again. That's his only goal with you.


He does not like you, he just wants some freshman pussy. Why do you think he doesn't say hi to you at school? He doesn't care about you -- he's just looking for some action.


Don't try to get in a relationship with this douche, just use him for lustful desires if you want it.|||just say your not ready he`ll try to talk u into but just tell him that we can make out but dont cross that line. or you can start with lil touching so you can grow a lil closer so when you get to that ponit it ill be better and easyer i suggest you look up how u can get more enjoyment out of sex. tell him to take it slow 15 mins of foreplay works from what i hear from online %26amp; sex thereapists with degrees. but remember your in control. but dont abuse your power to where hes your bit**h its a 50-50 relationship.|||hes a horndog, and too old for you


wat till your brother hears


what race are you


and would you like my number, its 911 lol|||honestly girl he is going to try to have sex with you again maybe yal should go outside or go out and eat some were girl i honestly don't think he is worth it he sounds like a horn dog but its up to you i am just warning you.|||Are you kidding me... you go back to his house he will take it as you changed your mind. He'll make sure his brother isn't there and rape the sh*t out of you. He'll tell the police that he tried to seduce you the other night and respected your wish when you said no. But when you came back... it just must mean yes.





Unless you really want to have sex with this guy... don't go back! If you actually have a change of heart and want to have sex with him then go... but he doesn't sound like the type of guy you can have any type of long term relationship.|||Don't go to his house. Most likely he will try to have sex with you again. If he tried to have sex with you the first time you two hung out then he was obviously trying to take advantage of you since you are so young and just wanted to have sex with someone. He was probably saying he respected you for saying no so that way it would make you feel ok and possibly want to have sex with him later. At my high school the hot/popular jock guys are players and have sex with anyone, and it sounds like this guy might be the same way.|||Oh my god, honey, I was in the almost exact same situation my freshman year, same ages and everything. It really messed me up. I said no a few times, but would comprimise with other things to get him off. But after a while, I gave in and hated it. It hurt and I felt horrible about myself. But I let him take advantage of me, and it really did screw my life up, I think. I thought he loved me, but he was just using me. I know it's hard, but chances are, this guy just wants to use you, too. Just wait until you find someone who actually deserves you!





email me if you want to talk!|||dayum girl keep yo legs closed i would slap dis bish so hard it would make his eyes bleed





I'm serious





he's only using you and will only want to get in your pants -.-|||hmmm lets see have fun one night and let him stick it in?and get pregnant ... dun dun dunnnn orrrr say no,hes using you dont fall for it when your pregno hes gonna reject the baby plus your only 14 so yea just make out and stuff but if he trys that move again punch him in the nutz :)|||Ok, you just said you think the only reason he got off you was because his brother was down stairs. BUT you still thinking of going back to his house even though you think that he might of raped you? If he could get away with it. That's just stupid. Why would you even put yourself in that position. Your probably right! From what I've read he probably wouldn't of stopped if no one was home. Don't be a dumb bimbo, protect yourself please. People are capable of a lot of damage so try to be careful who you put yourself around. You could end up seriously hurt or worse...|||I agree with ^ just let it happen haha