He tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore? (please read ALL!)?

Okay so i'm a 14 year old freshman girl and there's this extremely hot guy on the boys varsity bball team that my brother plays on. His name's Omar (: He has the most ripped body i've ever seen, beautiful eyes, he's like 6'2 and he's just the total package! He's considered the hottest guy in class of 2011 ahah. He's a 17 year old senior. So like I got his number from my friend and then I just texted him "hey" and like 15 minutes, he was already making plans to come pick me up to we could chill at his house. I said no though and that I couldn't that night. But 2 nights ago, I was at my friends house and I was texting him, and I agreed to go to his house, so he picked me up from there. When we got to his house, we went up to his room and he locked the door, and we started making out and I could tell he was really liking it and so was I. And then all of a sudden, he started taking off my pants and threw me on the bed, and then got on top of me. So he had already taken off my pants AND underwear, so I was there half naked underneath him, and then he took off his pants and boxers and then tried to stick his diiiick in! Then I was like "nooo, sorry I can't." then he was like "ohh common baby, just lay back down. it's okay." then I kept saying, "no really, stop get off of me." and then I kept trying to get up, but then he kept pushing my shoulders down and holding them. and then I finally said "No! I mean it, like seriously i cant do this. get off of me." and he just kept saying, "baby it's okay. baby, just relax. what did i do baby?" and then I told him no again, and then he finally got off of me. So we didn't actually have sex, but he was like 4 inches away from getting it in, haha. I think one of the reasons he stopped was because his little brother was downstairs, so maybe he didn't want him to hear the noise/commotion of me yelling for him to stop. So then as he was driving me back to my friends house, he said "ohh i'm not mad or anything, like I respect a girl who can say no. So when we get to know each other more, maybe you'll let me." Do you think he means this? So yesterday, he asked me if I wanted to chill, and I said yes. But this time he came to my house bcos no one was home. So it was like what happened before, we went into a room and started making out, and then he started to take off my clothes then got on top of me. But this time I actually let him have sex with me. I don't really feel bad, bcos I liked it. But now, the reason i'm sad, is because he didn't even ask me to homecoming ): He asked some other girl. I really thought he liked me, because he said he did, but wouldn't he ask me to homecoming so we could go together? And it killed me to see the pictures of them at homecoming together. All I kept thinking was "Shouldn't that be me?" And now, the only times he texts me are to go over to his house, or for him to come over to mine. I say yes, because he's so sweet to me when we text and when i'm at his house. And whenever i'm at his house, we don't even bond or hang out or even watch tv together. The first thing he does when I get to his house, is take me up to his room and then we have sex. Besides that, we hardly talk. Why is this? What should I do? I'm so confused.He tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore? (please read ALL!)?
You got used honey, it happens. Best thing you can do is learn from your mistakes and avoid these scenarios in the future.
Ok you did the right thing the first time when you said no, i mean if he didnt listen that would pretty much be rape.. and i hope you understand how serious that is

after you let him have sex with you, thats why he keeps calling you, you gave it up and he knows your not goingto say no.

This might be ok if you two were on the same page, but you seem to have feeling for this jake *** and he just wants you for the sex. thats exactly why hes not talking to you and you guys just watch tv and stuff....it so easy for him to use you.



But you also have the power to change that.

You can stop the "relationship" when ever you want and once you do you open yourself up to alot of new possablilities and new people. i hope you do. youre being used and you shouldnt have to take that kind of crapHe tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore? (please read ALL!)?
he's playing you. u really should stop seeing him. he's just looking to get some
I understand what your trying to say. But you have to understand that you can't expect a guy to like you just because you hae sex with him. I know it may hurt, but you have to realize that. Guys like girls who are hard to get. You should use this and take it for future reference. I understand that you may like him and it may sound "old school" or even "lame" but the more you avoid to have sex with guys they more they will like you and respect you. I've had many friends who have had this happen to them. You can't expect them to care and love you if you just "have sex" with them. Guys like those girls who wait and have sex with someone that is TRULY worth it. I don't want to come off rude but if you keep doing the whole " I'll let him have sex with me just b.c he's so cool and hot" thing, you wont ever have someone t TRULY like you or ever LOVE you. I would recommend to move one. I know it may hurt but theirs absolutely no point in being with someone who ONLY wants you just to have "sex". I think that that first time that you "almost" did you should have stopped him, and told him to respect you b.c your not like that, but since you let him get away with it you only let him get what he wanted not what you wanted ( a relationship). I really am sorry about what happened but use this to your advantage and grow from it.





What ever path you may take always think of what the out-come will be.He tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore? (please read ALL!)?
You are a pregnant, stupid slut. If you do not wise up you will be ******* people for drug money on the street corner. Know one will ever respect you, and you do not respect yourself. Wow, I really hope this is a fake post because you are just too stupid for words.
Dear as cruel as it is your just his toy right now. your young enough to let him and your inexperienced enough to make it fun because he knows you'll believe everything he says. You need to cut the tie and not let him take advantage of you. You deserve so much better and you will regret it later when you find a guy you love. Just cuz he's hot doesn't mean he's a good guy. Make smart decisions now and you can have a happy future later.
you his *** bucket .. he don't care **** about you . now hope you use protection or you you could be pregnant.. you were stupid to even go back around him .. you knew what he wanted ,, and get want he got it .. by the time Your a Senior . if you stay in school that long. You will have the rep of being easy and a slut.. his homeboys will pass it around .. You be the joke of the school.I have seen it before. welcome to 3 years of hell.
HE IS USING YOU!!

all he wants is sex, and he goes to you because you let him have it. he doesn't care about you.



I'm sorry for being so harsh, but you need to realize this. Ditch this kid. Find a guy that loves you and cares for you. A guy for whom a night of cuddling on the couch while watching a movie and doing only that is enough. A guy who talks to you and everything. You will be much happier.



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I'm sorry honey, but I think he just used you for sex.

What he did was wrong, and he can be charged.

If you want to take the matter up with the police, i urge you to say so.

He could be charged with at least statutory rape %26amp; sexual assault.

I'm sorry, you'll find the right guy someday.