Thursday, February 9, 2012

He tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore.?

Okay so i'm a 14 year old freshman girl and there's this extremely hot guy on the boys varsity bball team that my brother plays on. His name's Omar (: He has the most ripped body i've ever seen, beautiful eyes, he's like 6'2 and he's just the total package! He's considered the hottest guy in class of 2011 ahah. He's a 17 year old senior. So like I got his number from my friend and then I just texted him "hey" and like 15 minutes, he was already making plans to come pick me up to we could chill at his house. I said no though and that I couldn't that night. But 2 nights ago, I was at my friends house and I was texting him, and I agreed to go to his house, so he picked me up from there. When we got to his house, we went up to his room and he locked the door, and we started making out and I could tell he was really liking it and so was I. And then all of a sudden, he started taking off my pants and threw me on the bed, and then got on top of me. So he had already taken off my pants AND underwear, so I was there half naked underneath him, and then he took off his pants and boxers and then tried to stick his diiiick in! Then I was like "nooo, sorry I can't." then he was like "ohh common baby, just lay back down. it's okay." then I kept saying, "no really, stop get off of me." and then I kept trying to get up, but then he kept pushing my shoulders down and holding them. and then I finally said "No! I mean it, like seriously i cant do this. get off of me." and he just kept saying, "baby it's okay. baby, just relax. what did i do baby?" and then I told him no again, and then he finally got off of me. So we didn't actually have sex, but he was like 4 inches away from getting it in, haha. I think one of the reasons he stopped was because his little brother was downstairs, so maybe he didn't want him to hear the noise/commotion of me yelling for him to stop. So then as he was driving me back to my friends house, he said "ohh i'm not mad or anything, like I respect a girl who can say no. So when we get to know each other more, maybe you'll let me." Do you think he means this? So yesterday, he asked me if I wanted to chill, and I said yes. But this time he came to my house bcos no one was home. So it was like what happened before, we went into a room and started making out, and then he started to take off my clothes then got on top of me. But this time I actually let him have sex with me. I don't really feel bad, bcos I liked it. But now, the reason i'm sad, is because he didn't even ask me to homecoming ): He asked some other girl. I really thought he liked me, because he said he did, but wouldn't he ask me to homecoming so we could go together? And now, the only times he texts me are to go over to his house, or for him to come over to mine. I say yes, because he's so sweet to me when we text and when i'm at his house. Besides that, we hardly talk. Why is this? What should I do?He tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore.?
Sadly but surely he is using you for a piece... and you dont deserve that, that or he really likes you but for some reason is embarrassed by you, your best bet is to just keep it to yourself and move on, you seem like a nice girl and dont deserve someone treating you like your a secret, and yes if he really liked you he would have asked you and been proud to show you off at homecoming, I hope he used protection and if not get checked out right away...
you are 14 and having sex already? wow you are to young to be doing thatHe tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore.?
im sry to say this.. but he is jst using you, u r being played. GET OUT OFF IT!!
he only said that to get to sex. guys use girls as if girls were disposable.He tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore.?
He used you. You mean nothing to him. You should stop sleeping with him.
He obviously isn't as sweet as you make him out to be if he didn't get off of you the first time you said no. I think your hormones are getting the best of you. When he texts you just ignore him. And he's too old for you. Your 14 and he's 17. That's to big of a difference in high school. He's only using you for sex. That's why he doesn't tell anyone about it and he only texts you when he wants to have sex. He doesn't really like you or he would respect you enough to ask you to homecoming.
girl your 14...i didnt even know the meaning of sex at that age...my god times have changed. im 18 now and wouldnt dream of doing anything like that, if you keep this behaviour up your guna set yourself up for A LOT of heartbreak. he does NOT care about you and has used you. he is 17, preying on a 14 year old that should be basically rape or something. he does not have your best interest at heart. he sounds like the biggest di ck head...stop seeing him altogether and please dont do this again until your older, in a stable and healthy relationship and until your ready for it, and protected. or as your parents would want, until your married!!!!!

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