Monday, January 30, 2012

What should I do about my baby daddy?

I am 17 and my boyfriend is almost 19 and I am 33 weeks pregnant with a little boy and I am due on July 11th,2011 however, lately (as in thee past 5 months) my boyfriend has not wanted to hangout with me/ spend time with me AT ALL. It is always me bugging him to come and spend time with me. All he does is go hangout with his friends EVERY DAY. And now I am just fed up with it and I don't know what to do. I honestly feel like not talking to him or even giving him any my attention. He wants to be apart of naming the baby and giving thee baby HIS last name but, I don't even wanna do that and I feel bad. Should I? What should I do???What should I do about my baby daddy?
if hes not showing any interest in you, then hes not showing any interest in your unborn baby either. if he wants to be involved with your baby boy then he needs to start being involved now. he should have been involved throughout the whole pregnancy. if i were in your situation, i would take this as a sign of how things are going to be when the baby comes. don't do anything you don't want to do. give the baby your last name if that's what you want. if he actually decides to be a real man and a father, you can change the last name later if you want. its easy to do. don't waste your time on someone that isn't willing to be there for you when you need it... and especially while you're pregnant with their child.
your screwed. wear a condom. you're gonna struggle financially .What should I do about my baby daddy?
He is likely acting that way because he is starting to realize that his life IS NOT going to EVER be the same. He's being selfish, worrying about how much fun he has and how he feels and HIS life- Not thinking about how YOUR life has and is about to change. Tell him that until he is a prt of the pregnancy (going shopping for baby things w/ you, going to your baby shower at the end, spening time w/ you, etc), that you don't think he should have a say in the name and you have been thinking of giving the baby YOUR last name since he's never around. It sounds like he's being a typical immature boy and panicking now. However, that baby did not ask to be conceived, and will need a mother AND a father to take care of it.

P.S- Don't listen to the negative people who say you're screwed or you'll struggle financially. I have a 3 month old, am married, and my husband has a good job- But it's not always easy. Your age does make it harder, but it's NOT impossible. It can be done. :) There is NO "good time" to have a baby, and anyone who says "We're waiting till we're financially stable" will likely never have a baby. You're never financially set for a baby.

Congrats!! I hope everything works out dor the best for you. :)
I can't tell you if you should or shouldn't let your baby have his last name, that is something you two need to talk about. Now, this is a VERY bad sign because he is still acting like a child. I have a feeling your relationship isn't going to work out, and please don't stay together for the baby because it's going to cause more drama. Have a seriouse talk with him and tell him how you feel, he needs to understand that once this baby comes he can't go and hang out with his friends whenever he pleases. Some guys think that if the baby is with the mother then everything is ok, it's NOT ok! You guys have to understand that once your son comes into this world, it's not going to be about you guys, you son comes first. I hope that helps.What should I do about my baby daddy?
he needs to grow up y'all are bringing a child into the world. I would break up with him and tell him he needs to get his priorities straight which is more important to him HIS SON or his friends.. and if there's any question at all don't put his name on the birth certificate. Your not married you don't have to and if that's the way he wants to act then he doesn't deserve either of you. Don't worry about him you've got your son to think about now that should be what's most important to both of you. Give him a chance to get his head on straight talk to him and tell him what needs to happen. If I were you I wouldn't be with him and his name sure as heck wouldn't be going on the birth certificate or give my son his last name! Good luck and congrats on your little man hope things get better with your bf

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