He tried to have sex with me?

Okay so i'm a 14 year old freshman girl and there's this extremely hot guy on the boys varsity bball team that my brother plays on. His name's Omar (: He has the most ripped body i've ever seen, beautiful eyes, he's like 6'2 and he's just the total package! He's considered the hottest guy in class of 2011 ahah. He's a 17 year old senior. So like I got his number from my friend and then I just texted him "hey" and like 15 minutes, he was already making plans to come pick me up to we could chill at his house. I said no though and that I couldn't that night. But yesterday, I was at my friends house and I was texting him, and I agreed to go to his house, so he picked me up from there. When we got to his house, we went up to his room and he locked the door, and we started making out and I could tell he was really liking it and so was I. And then all of a sudden, he started taking off my pants and threw me on the bed, and then got on top of me. So he had already taken off my pants AND underwear, so I was there half naked underneath him, and then he took off his pants and boxers and then tried to stick his diiiick in! Then I was like "nooo, sorry I can't." then he was like "ohh common baby, just lay back down. it's okay." then I kept saying, "no really, stop get off of me." and then I kept trying to get up, but then he kept pushing my shoulders down and holding them. (he was super aggressive and strong) and then I finally said "No! I mean it, like seriously i cant do this. get off of me." and he just kept saying, "baby it's okay. baby, just relax. what did i do baby?" and then I told him no again, and then he finally got off of me. So we didn't actually have sex, but he was like 4 inches away from getting it in, haha. I honestly thought he was gonna rape me because he kept trying to force himself in, but I just kept pushing him away so he couldn't. I think one of the reasons he stopped was because his little brother was downstairs, so maybe he didn't want him to hear the noise/commotion of me yelling for him to stop. But then, as we were going downstairs, he just picked me up out of nowhere and took me to a bathroom in one of the other rooms, and just shut and locked the door! I wasn't sure if I should scream or not so I just kept quiet. And then when were in the bathroom, he sat me up on the sink and started making out with me. And then he tried again to have sex with me, but this time he tried taking off my top first. I WAS SO SCARED. I continued to kiss him back bcos I didnt wanna get him angry and because he's so freaken hot %26lt;3. And then he took off his pants again, and just held me close and whispered "dont worry baby, were both gonna like this." and then I kept telling him no! I even made up lies and said that I was on my period but he still insisted on having sex right there in his bathroom! and then as he was trying to get it in, I just shoved him away. and he saw that I was really serious, so then he stopped and said "im sorry baby." And then this time, we left his house forrreal. So then as he was driving me back to my friends house, he said "ohh i'm not mad or anything, like I respect a girl who can say no. So when we get to know each other more, maybe you'll let me." Do you think he means this? So like now today at school, he kept looking at me, but he didn't say hi or anything? Is he mad at me? What does this whole thing mean? Does he like me or no? Bcos I dont think he would try that hard to have sex with me if he didn't. I just want to know. Kthanks! (:


*PS* he wants me to go to his house again tomorrow. Should I? I loved making out with him and him holding me and hugging me, but the only part that freaked me out a little was him trying to have sex w/ me. I'm confused! What should I do?|||You need to slow way, way down. You're speeding in the fast lane, on your way to becoming the school whore, getting yourself knocked up, thrown out of school and pretty much messing up your whole life. Stay home, say no, and really have a talk with yourself and an older person. You are WAY over your head. This is big time trouble. Law trouble, jail trouble, testifying in court trouble, You don't want it, you don't need it. Back out, back off, and back off NOW. Try and get counseling if you can. You don't have to say the exact reasons.|||He's a horny guy that wants sex.


You're 14, just stay away from it for now you seem a bit too young for that.|||Damn From that Description I Would Defiantly Hit Him. But your making the Right Choice. Us Girls Could Make Really Stupid Mistakes, So Don't have Sex with Him, and Avoid getting in His Room.|||Yeah stay away from that guy. He might be as cute and strong as you like but I'm pretty sure hes just trying to get in your pants again by inviting you over the next weekend. Maybe hes used to getting any girl he likes but that doesn't mean you have to go along with him|||sorry to tell you this because i know its hard to hear, but all he cares about is having sex with you. he knows your young and naive and he will say and do anything to convince you to do it with him. make sure you make the right decision and do not do anything you regret.|||You do realize the only thing he wants with you is sex right? Believe me when I say, seniors want NOTHING to do with freshmen relationship wise besides sex. He WILL get in your pants whether you like it or not. He's taking advantage of you. If you want to be pregnant and have a loose vag at 14, then by all means, be my guest. Hit me up sometime.|||ahhhh... stay the hell way from him


you basically escaped RAPE. why the hELL would you give him a second chance to even try that again?


girl, you better sit down with yourself %26amp; figure out the difference between a nice guy %26amp; a jerk-|||Hahah an example of a shallow naive high school girl. No, you little freshman, he's using you for sex. You mean nothing but sex. And the fact that he does this shows that his good looks don't mean anything because he's clearly a disgusting a,sshole.





Note: I liked how this was thumbed down, but you know it's true haha|||YOU WERE ALMOST ANOTHER RAPE VICTIM. Look up date rape. Don't be a fool. Stay away from him. I mean it. Not worth it. You WILL be SORRY.|||OMG are you stupid unless you plan on getting raped stay away he doesnt mean it he wants sex thats it only time u were prolly saved was cause of his younger brother


srsly i think you should be smart enough to tell this stay away srsly|||I know it's hard at that age especially when a good looking guy comes around. But guys can be very aggressive when it comes to sex, and it's important to be strong about your decision until your ready. The more you put yourself in a situation when you two are alone, or the more you hang out with him then the higher the chance is that you two will end up having sex whether you are ready or not. This guy seems like a creep, and as good looking as he may be that is no excuse for his actions. He seems to have a way to turning the situation around in his favor, like he was doing you a favor. By the way you described his manner during the ride home he seems to try to always seem in perfect control. Then in school he kind of ignores you or acts like nothing happened. Yeah this guy is definitely only in it for the action then he will take off as soon as he gets what he wants and find another victim to pry on. I think he is going for a younger girl because he might be able to manipulate them better than one his own age...





Take care of yourself...|||....................................Even someone as young as you should be able to get the seriousness of that situation. You basically were this close to getting rap'd.


To be blunt: He doesn't like you.. He doesn't respect you.. He just wants to get laid.. He chose you because you're young, weak, %26amp;%26amp; easy to take advantage of. He's probably done it before because that does NOT sound like a first attempt. He chose you for a reason. Just not any good ones....





Reality is you don't have to LIKE someone to sleep with them. You just have to have all the right parts.....





So what should you do? Report him?? If not that, then at least stay away from him %26amp;%26amp; warn your friends, dear. Who cares if he's hot? The devil's not ugly, that's the point. It's up to you to be smart enough to see past a pretty face, %26amp;%26amp; the danger that lurks within those pretty blue eyes... I say this nicely: Time to grow up, love. %26lt;3|||I think he wants to toot it and boot it


I wuld stop tlkin to him cus it looks like he just wants to hit it and quit it|||FIRST OFF YOU SHOULDNT EVEN BE TALKING TO HIM AT ALL. THE FACT THAT HE TRIED TO FORCE HIMSELF ONTO YOU MORE THAN ONCE IS LIKE A BIG SIGN. IF HE REALLY RESPECTED YOU THEN WHEN YOU SAID NO THE FIRST TIME HE WOULD HAVE STOPPED. HE CERTAINLY WOULDNT HAVE TRIED A SECOND TIME. ALL HE IS WAITING TO DO IS POP YOUR CHERRY. ITS BETTER TO WAIT. I MEAN HELL IF YOUR GOING TO GIVE IT UP AT LEAST LET IT BE TO A GUY WHO ACTUALLY LIKES YOU.





NOT TO MENTION YOUR JAIL BAIT TO HIM AND HE CAN GO TO PRISON FOR EVEN HAVING SEX WITH YOU.