He tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore (please read ALL!)?

Okay so i'm a 14 year old freshman girl and there's this extremely hot guy on the boys varsity bball team that my brother plays on. His name's Omar (: He has the most ripped body i've ever seen, beautiful eyes, he's like 6'2 and he's just the total package! He's considered the hottest guy in class of 2011 ahah. He's a 17 year old senior. So like I got his number from my friend and then I just texted him "hey" and like 15 minutes, he was already making plans to come pick me up to we could chill at his house. I said no though and that I couldn't that night. But 2 nights ago, I was at my friends house and I was texting him, and I agreed to go to his house, so he picked me up from there. When we got to his house, we went up to his room and he locked the door, and we started making out and I could tell he was really liking it and so was I. And then all of a sudden, he started taking off my pants and threw me on the bed, and then got on top of me. So he had already taken off my pants AND underwear, so I was there half naked underneath him, and then he took off his pants and boxers and then tried to stick his diiiick in! Then I was like "nooo, sorry I can't." then he was like "ohh common baby, just lay back down. it's okay." then I kept saying, "no really, stop get off of me." and then I kept trying to get up, but then he kept pushing my shoulders down and holding them. and then I finally said "No! I mean it, like seriously i cant do this. get off of me." and he just kept saying, "baby it's okay. baby, just relax. what did i do baby?" and then I told him no again, and then he finally got off of me. So we didn't actually have sex, but he was like 4 inches away from getting it in, haha. I think one of the reasons he stopped was because his little brother was downstairs, so maybe he didn't want him to hear the noise/commotion of me yelling for him to stop. So then as he was driving me back to my friends house, he said "ohh i'm not mad or anything, like I respect a girl who can say no. So when we get to know each other more, maybe you'll let me." Do you think he means this? So yesterday, he asked me if I wanted to chill, and I said yes. But this time he came to my house bcos no one was home. So it was like what happened before, we went into a room and started making out, and then he started to take off my clothes then got on top of me. But this time I actually let him have sex with me. I don't really feel bad, bcos I liked it. But now, the reason i'm sad, is because he didn't even ask me to homecoming ): He asked some other girl. And this girls was a senior just like him. I really thought he liked me, because he said he did, but wouldn't he ask me to homecoming so we could go together? And it killed me to see the pictures of them at homecoming together. All I kept thinking was "Shouldn't that be me?" And now, the only times he texts me are to go over to his house, or for him to come over to mine. I say yes, because he's so sweet to me when we text and when i'm at his house. And whenever i'm at his house, we don't even bond or hang out or even just talk to each other. The first thing he does when I get to his house, is take me up to his room and then we have sex. Besides that, we hardly talk.

And now, this is the really sad part. My reputation is like RUINED. I guess he told someone or someone found out, and now at school everyone gives me nasty and harsh looks. And some random guys even ask me if I wanna have sex with them )': Like this one guy even parked in front of my house asking for me to go with him to his house. I don't know what to do. My life is like ruined /: And when I confronted Omar asking him if he told anyone, he just said no and promised me that he didn't. I don't know if I should believe him. Is he being sincere or is he just trying to keep me around for more sex? I don't know what to do ):He tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore (please read ALL!)?
duh. Barely escaped a rapist and thought he would turn out to be a good guy. Sorry, but if your need to be popular got you to where you are... tough luck. He's turning you out like a street walker.
Unfortunately, he used you for sex. Like almost all boys at that age. You have been fooled, but don't worry.. everyone makes mistakes. I know you feel horrible about this, but don't let yourself down. Just don't make the same mistake twice, and don't do anything off that would further ruin your reputation. Just wait till this whole thing fades away, and stop talking to that guy.



I have a close friend who is 16 and has been used many guys. I know.He tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore (please read ALL!)?
awwww!:'(

datz sad...bt he's using u....m sure....diz kinda guyz knw hw 2 talk sw8ly n convince girls...m tellin it 4rm mah own xperience...
He's using you.He tried to have sex with me? I let him, but now I think he doesn't like me anymore (please read ALL!)?
First off I just want to say I'm really sorry this is the same EXACT thing that happened to my friend, I'm 14 too and I know the pressure and everything. Honey, he just wanted to get in your pants and your blinded by his charm... If he doesn't talk to you and all he does is goes straight upstairs he just uses you. He probably has a girlfriend, and he probably told his bestfriend. I'm sorry.